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2/19/2013
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Sex and Dating After Separation but Before Divorce: What's Appropriate?

If you're still married, you should be very careful about dating and sex. Make sure that the choices you're making now won't harm you down the road.

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2/12/2013
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Is it Cheaper to Keep HIM? How much does divorce cost?

Is it cheaper to stay unhappily married, or pursue a divorce? Here's a discussion of some of the important financial considerations.

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1/17/2013
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Financial Considerations in Divorce

Before you move forward with your divorce, make sure you consider your finances. What do you need to do to be able to take care of yourself? Will you get a share of the debt? You need to know.

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1/4/2013
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Private Investigators in Custody Cases: Is someone following YOU?

Private investigators are now used more often in custody cases than in adultery cases, because there's a lot more to gain (or lose). Does your child's father have one following YOU?

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12/6/2012
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Courtroom Behavior: How to Avoid Acting a Fool in Front of the Judge

Don't ruin your chances in court; make sure you know how to behave before you get there.

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2/8/2012
Kristen Hofheimer, Attorney
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3 Post-Divorce Parenting Mistakes to Avoid after Getting Divorced in Virginia

While you’re getting divorced in Virginia, child custody can be problematic but post-divorce parenting tips can help. Call a lawyer for support: 757-425-5200.

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6/26/2009
Charles Hofheimer
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5/27/2009
Kristen Hofheimer, Attorney
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Virginia Beach Divorce Lawyer explains that a successful divorce is about "Mindset"

Divorce/Custody "Mindset"--You have probably never heard the term. Yet, your "mindset" will often determine the results you achieve in your divorce or custody case. "Mindset"  is conditioning your mind and thoughts to achieve positive outcomes. In short "What the mind can conceive, the heart can believe, you can achieve !" This is not pollyanna thinking. This is tough, disciplined, focused work that requires most folks to read a new genre of books, listen to positive motivated speakers and work on goal setting with a five year horizon.

Once you understand the basics of a custody or a divorce case , The project that next needs to be undertaken is working on your "mindset." ! By immersing yourself in the change of "mindset" process, you are beginning to take your eyes off your spouse and focusing your vision on yourself. This is both healthy and necessary. As long as your spouse dominates your mind, your vision is blurred and negative thoughts prevail. Once your thoughts and actions focus on what you can do to change your circumstance, then the reinvention of self commences. Your vision becomes clearer and more positive thoughts prevail.

Keeping a "mindset" positive is greatly enhanced when a goal setting process in integrated into your divorce.Goal setting begins with creating a vision of where you would like to be in 5, 10 or 15 years. It is getting past the now! You are trying to unleash your dormant creative talents to find a passion that will awaken creative thoughts and energize your soul.Your vision drives your results. As your vision becomes clearer, a plan of action is devised to not only successfully navigate your divorce but also to navigate your future. Soon, your spouse ceases to to dominate your daily life as the more important steps towards your own future are undertaken. In time, as your belief in your vision takes hold of you, the outcome you desire becomes real.

And it all started with changing your "Mindset" -- One of the little known secrets to a successful divorce and life transition. 


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