When Leaving an Abusive Husband and Heading Toward a Virginia Divorce

Leaving an abusive husband is a courageous act. If you're a woman facing Virginia divorce from an abusive spouse, take steps to protect yourself and your children as you make your exit. 

Unfortunately, it's not unusual to hear of violent acts committed by one ex-spouse against another. Recently, a Grapevine, Texas man allegedly opened fire on his estranged wife and 7 others during a Christmas celebration. The details of the case are still unclear, but this tragedy is one many incidents that calls attention to the seriousness of domestic violence. 

If you're escaping a dangerous relationship, your top priority should be remaining as safe as possible after your departure:  

• obtain a restraining order against your ex-husband before the divorce;
• change your locks;
• change your phone number, and your important passwords to protect your privacy;
• switch the routes you normally take to work and school.
• change jobs or alter your work hours (if possible);
• install secure locks on doors ;
• replace light wood doors with heavier wood or metal;
• install a security system and/or motion sensor lights;
• keep your cell phone on or near you at all times; and
• build a support system of caring people who are aware of your situation. For example, your children's school should be informed and given a copy of your restraining orde

While leaving an abusive husband might initially be stressful, with the right help and support you should be able to move on and start a safe secure new future.

Contacting a Virginia Divorce Attorney

There are very specific rules governing divorce in Virginia. At Hofheimer/Ferrebee we are committed to providing you with the experience and compassion you deserve and the successful results you need to move on with your life. Request a FREE copy of our divorce guide for women in Virginia, or reserve your seat at our monthly divorce seminar – 757-425-5200.