7 Tips for Women Surviving a Virginia Divorce after 50 (Part B)

The following are some basic tips for surviving and thriving in a Virginia divorce after 50:

• Stand up for your financial rights - Virginia spousal support can be helpful in getting you started on your own after an after 50 divorce. While Virginia spousal support is generally granted on a temporary "rehabilitation" basis, a woman over 50 may be entitled to receive it longer, particularly if you were a stay-at-home wife and mom during your marriage.
• Take your time to grieve your marriage - divorce after 50 can bring on complicated emotions, some of which may take some time to work through. Allow yourself to experience your feelings without guilt and healing will come in its own time.
• If you are granted the family home in your Virginia divorce, be sure you can afford to maintain the payments - try taking in a roommate or renting a room or floor of your home. The extra income can make all the difference.
• If you have adult children, remember that they are not immune to the trauma of your after 50 divorce - this may be a very painful event for them, so take the time to talk to them about their feelings. Make it clear to them that your Virginia divorce is not their fault and that you will be fine on your own.
• Try something new - many women over 50 put their own dreams and desires aside when they were young in order to start a family. Now that you're facing Virginia divorce, you can focus on some of the things that make you feel happy and inspired. You can learn a new skill or hobby, go back to work or school or get involved with causes for which you feel passionate.
• Consider technology if you decide to date - if and when you feel ready to date again after divorce, make use of technology. Reliable online dating sites can be great places to meet prospective partners who share your interests and goals. Always be sure to practice Internet safety and to represent yourself honestly to prospective mates.

Finally, keep in mind to take good care of your whole self during and following your after 50 divorce. Divorce stress can affect your health; be sure to get proper nutrients, adequate sleep and energizing exercise.

Contacting a Newport News Divorce Attorney

Throughout your divorce proceedings, you'll naturally have a lot of questions specific to your circumstances. Get your questions answered by requesting one of our FREE divorce guides for women, or reserving your seat at our monthly divorce seminar - 757-425-5200.

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-- 20 guidelines for "separation under the same roof"

-- 13 critical factors used to determine spousal support

-- 3 types of property classification recognized by Virginia courts

-- 10 factors your judge must consider in a contested custody case

-- a formula to determine your percentage share of his retirement benefits

-- 38 Financial Records you should be aware of

-- 20 steps to prepare for divorce

-- 7 stages of divorce

-- 40 age-appropriate books about divorce for children

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