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The Emotional Stages of a Virginia Divorce (Part B)

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Separation

If you were the one who wanted out of the marriage, you may feel a sense of relief after physically separating from your spouse. If you wanted the marriage to continue, you may feel shock and terror at the thought of living alone. In fact, even if you wanted to be free, the concept of being "alone" may still leave you feeling sad, angry and/or scared. Most people experience anxiety and loneliness during a separation regardless of who wanted the Virginia divorce.

Mourning

The failure of a marriage can feel like a death. Therefore, it makes sense that some people need to go through a mourning stage similar to as if someone had died. You may not only feel sad, you may also feel angry. This is a natural part of the grieving process.

Second Adolescence

You may go through a second adolescence during your Virginia divorce. Your feelings may be very similar to those that you had as a teenager, including all of the angst. After all, you are free of the restrictions of marriage. You can date other men, as many as you want. You are completely in control of planning your life. If you don't have children, you don't have to compromise with anyone about where you want to be and what you want to do.

Exploration and Hard Work

People can move from the "teenage" stage towards setting goals for their future. Now that you are ready to move on with your life, you can work on fulfilling your life's dreams while taking on new challenges. You are becoming whole again and enjoying what life has to offer.

Throughout your Virginia divorce proceedings, you'll naturally have a lot of questions specific to your circumstances. Get your questions answered by requesting a FREE copy of our guide, What Every Virginia Woman Should Know About Divorce, or reserving your seat at our monthly divorce seminar - 757-425-5200.

The Virginia divorce attorneys at Hofheimer/Ferrebee are committed to fighting for your rights, assisting in child custody disputes, and advocating that you receive everything you are entitled to and need in order to start your new life.



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