Jump to NavigationJump to Content

Hofheimer/Ferrebee P.C. - (757) 425-5200

Hofheimer/Ferrebee P.C.

Need Help? Call (757) 425-5200

OFFICE LOCATIONS

  • Virginia Beach
  • 1060 Laskin Road Suite 12B
    Virginia Beach, VA 23451
  • Phone: (757) 425-5200
  • Fax: (757) 425-6100
  • View Map
  • Newport News
  • 11815 Fountain Way
    Newport News, VA 23606
  • Phone: 757-425-5200
  • Fax: 757-425-6100
  • View Map
  • Chesapeake
  • 638 Independence Parkway, Suite 240
    Chesapeake, VA 23320
  • Phone: (757) 425-5200
  • Fax: (757) 425-6100
  • View Map

GET A YEAR OF TGB FREE!

Subscribe to our mailing list and receive tips, articles, and information to help you get your life back on track after the divorce.
Learn more >

Dealing with Child Relocation in the State of Virginia (Part A)

You are probably going through an emotional time if you or your ex-spouse are trying to move out of state and children are involved. You are concerned about your future, your child's future and how this is all going to work out in the end.

Navigating your way through any legal process, whether you have sought it or not, can be frightening and overwhelming. You need information and answers about child relocation, parent relocation and modifying a Virginia child custody agreement. You want and need to know: what can I expect?

Modifying a Virginia Child Custody Agreement

Modifying a Virginia child custody agreement to allow parent and child relocation is no easy matter
. Virginia courts are concerned specifically about the welfare of your child, not about new jobs, new significant others or new spouses. The parent who wishes to relocate must prove to the court that the child will benefit from the move.

Virginia courts will also want to be assured that there will be minimal impact to the relationship between your child and the spouse who is staying in the state.

How Modifying a Virginia Child Custody Agreement Affects You

When you went through your divorce, your Virginia child custody lawyer probably discussed how you should act inside and outside of the courtroom. Now that you are involved in modifying a Virginia child custody agreement, it's time for a little review:
  • As much as you may be tempted to do so, don't bad-mouth your ex to your child
  • Do not share any fears that you may have with your child
  • Forget about your ex-spouse's dating life, even if extra-marital dalliances were a factor in your divorce or his new love interest factors into your child's possible relocation. You don't want to sound vindictive.
  • Take care of yourself emotionally during this time. This includes monitoring your alcohol consumption and abstaining from all illegal drugs.
  • Keep as positive an outlook as possible
  • Stay active
  • Show your child that they are loved and cared for, no matter what.

Next, it would be in your best interest to consult with an experienced child custody attorney who understands women's issues in Virginia. It is important that the Virginia child custody lawyer you choose has handled cases similar to yours, and they understand how modifying a child custody agreement in Virginia will impact your life and the lives of your children.

Continue to Next Page >>




To order your free book-www.freedivorcebook.com
information on seminars-www.monthlydivorceseminars.com
info on collaborative divorce-www.virginiacollaborativelaw.com
information-estate planning for young families-www.generationslawfirm.com
information-family law and estate planning for the LGBT community-www.FamilyEqualityLawCenter.com





 
Charles R. Hofheimer
Charles R. Hofheimer
View lawyer's profile
 
 
Super Lawyers
Charles R. Hofheimer
 
visit superlawyers.com