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  • 1060 Laskin Road Suite 12B
    Virginia Beach, VA 23451
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  • 11815 Fountain Way
    Newport News, VA 23606
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How Should I Act In Court During A Child Custody Hearing? (Part B)

Your Mannerisms During Your Virginia Child Custody Hearing

Another very important consideration to make when facing a judge and going through a Virginia child custody case is your mannerisms. How you come across to others and the way you portray yourself will make a big difference in your child custody case.

Keep in mind that this is not only important when you are in court and facing a judge, but at all times. Sometimes, judges will ask bailiffs and clerks about the behavior they've observed of the parties involved in a divorce. Pay careful attention to the way you act around others no matter where you are.

This is not the time to nurse a grudge and display your negative feelings or attitude towards your ex-husband.
No matter how you may feel about the situation, you need to be courteous and polite with everyone that you come in contact with.

It's also possible that you are being watched outside of the courtroom while you spend time with your children. It's important to guard everything that you say and do and continue to present yourself as a reasonable adult, both inside and outside of court.

Communicating During Your Virginia Child Custody Hearing

Your appearance and mannerisms are important, but so is the way you communicate with the judge and other people involved in your child custody case.

No matter what you personally think about someone, never argue with the judge, a witness, or any other professional during your hearing.
Leave it to your Virginia divorce attorney to handle any misinformation or procedures. You can disagree with someone, but communicate it in a proper fashion. Arguing, yelling, or interrupting does not demonstrate positive communication in a child custody hearing.

By presenting yourself in the best possible light through your appearance, how you handle yourself, and your communication style, you can greatly improve your chances of walking out of your Virginia child custody hearing with a favorable decision.

At Hofheimer/Ferrebee, we understand that the health and happiness of your child is your #1 concern and we will work with you to address any fears and anxieties that you may have about your child's future. Our women's divorce attorneys will work with you every step of the way to ensure that you achieve the best possible child custody and child support arrangements for you and your children. Contact us today to schedule a legal consultation - (757) 425-5200.



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