Pros and Cons of Alternative Litigation (Part B)

Although litigation in a Virginia divorce proceeding can be expensive and can include a battle you may not feel ready for, there are pros and cons to alternative litigation in Virginia. It's important to understand them so you can know the best way to proceed with a Virginia divorce or child custody hearing.

Pros to Alternative Litigation

Alternative litigation can work well in certain circumstances. Some of the pros to alternative litigation in a Virginia divorce include:

A resolution to child custody and visitation can be tailor-made for your family (under the right circumstances)
It is less expensive than a traditional divorce
It can help maintain an alliance between you and your child's father
The atmosphere is much more relaxed
There is more privacy and confidentiality
It is an efficient way of working through a dispute
Hostility between parties is lessened

Cons to Alternative Litigation

Sometimes, alternative litigation will not work in a Virginia divorce situation. Some of the cons to alternative litigation include:

It doesn't work well in a situation where there is emotional, physical or verbal abuse
If your spouse is extremely controlling, the process can be difficult or impossible
If you are not able to stand up for yourself, alternative litigation will not work
In mediation, you do not have your own advocate
There is a lack of transparency

Seeking a Virginia divorce can be challenging and at times uncertain. Alternative litigation may or may not work for your situation, but speaking to a Virginia divorce attorney that handles both traditional divorce litigation and collaborative divorce can help you decide which process is best for your situation.

At Hofheimer/Ferrebee, our Virginia women's divorce attorneys will work with you every step of the way to ensure that you achieve the best possible child custody and child support arrangements for you and your children. Contact us today to schedule a legal consultation - (757) 425-5200.

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