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The Relationship Between Military Service and Divorce (Part B)

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It is by no means impossible to maintain a strong and healthy marriage while serving in the armed forces. Many military couples balance a happy home with service to their country.

There are many books and websites as well as support groups that can help military couples strengthen their relationship and deal with marital tensions.

Still, like couples from any walk of life, military couples will sometimes find that divorce is their best option.
The marital troubles that lead to divorce may or may not be related to the challenges of military service. Sometimes, a couple simply stops getting along. Whatever the case may be, a Virginia military couple seeking to end their marriage will need the services of a Virginia divorce attorney experienced in military divorce.

Unique Aspects of Divorce for Military Couples

Military divorce differs from civilian divorce in a number of ways. The divorce process can take longer for military couples because of the unique considerations it presents.

Military divorce in Virginia is carried out according to the state's divorce laws, just like civilian divorce. In addition, military divorce is also subject to some federal laws.

If you and your spouse are divorcing in Virginia, and one or both of you are in the military, your Virginia divorce attorney will need to address things such as:

  • the division of military pensions and other benefits;
  • military housing issues;
  • the use of military healthcare benefits by a non-military spouse following divorce; and
  • customized child custody and visitation plans.

In addition to legal advice, someone going through a military divorce in Virginia will need moral support.

During any Virginia divorce, but especially one involving a military couple, it is imperative that you communicate with someone with whom you can connect and trust, such as a close friend, clergy member or therapist.

If you are not a service member but are the spouse of one, you might feel even more alienated by a military divorce.
You may have to leave military housing and lose touch with the network of service members' spouses to which you belonged. If possible, you should reach out to a therapist or other caring individual who can help you with this transition.

Contacting a Virginia Divorce Attorney

Throughout your divorce proceedings, you'll naturally have a lot of questions specific to your circumstances. Get your questions answered by requesting one of our FREE divorce guides for women, or reserving your seat at our monthly divorce seminar - 757-425-5200.
The Virginia divorce attorneys at Hofheimer/Ferrebee are committed to fighting for your rights, assisting in child custody disputes, and advocating that you receive everything you are entitled to and need in order to start your new life.



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