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Opting for Virginia Divorce or Reconciliation After Infidelity? (Part B)

Charles Hofheimer, Attorney
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A tough, no nonsense divorce and custody lawyer for women only who reside in Virginia Beach and Newport News.
Making a choice after learning of adultery is the first step toward recovering from infidelity. Once you've made the decision and taken action, you've gotten that much closer to a new future.

When your choice involves a Virginia divorce, you'll want the transition to be as seamless as possible. To help you while you're recovering from infidelity, you'll need the support of family and friends, not to mention the counsel of a Newport News divorce attorney to guide you throughout the legal process.

Understanding the Legal Impact of Virginia Divorce after Infidelity

One benefit of filing for Virginia divorce after infidelity is that you may be granted your divorce as soon as your case is prepared and goes to trial. You'll be able to forgo the mandatory waiting period, which can stretch from 6 months up to a year.

The downside of filing for Virginia divorce after infidelity is that you'll actually have to prove your husband's adultery. This does not mean you can spit out a list of supposed transgressions you think your husband committed. You actually have to furnish conclusive proof that your spouse had a sexual relationship with another person.

A Newport News divorce attorney is aware of this and will be able to more efficiently comb through evidence (travel receipts, cell phone records, etc.) acquire testimony from friends and co-workers and systematically review all findings to back up your case.

Taking Control of Your Emotions When Opting for Divorce after Infidelity

Recovering from infidelity is perhaps one of the hardest things you'll have to experience in your adult life. No one wants to be put in that position. While it may feel tempting to nurse your wounds, you must take pride in the fact that you were presented with a problem and that you took action. Don't regress into a victim mentality. You don't have to identify yourself with an act you didn't choose to commit.

Learning to identify your emotions is an important part of recovering after infidelity. It will no doubt take plenty of soul searching; something you cannot do if you are entirely consumed in a legal battle. By letting a Newport News divorce attorney handle the specifics of your case, you'll give yourself the chance to recover from the past while making strides toward your future security.

Contacting a Newport News Divorce Attorney

At this vulnerable time, it's critical that you have exceptional legal representation that not only understands the specifics of your case, but is dedicated to your best interests and that of your family.

The Newport News divorce attorneys at Hofheimer/Ferrebee represent Virginia women who wish to file for divorce. We are committed to fighting for your rights, assisting in child custody disputes, and advocating that you receive everything you are entitled to and need in order to start your new life. You can learn more by requesting one of our FREE divorce guides for women, or reserving your seat at our monthly divorce seminar - 757-425-5200.



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