What Will Hurt My Chances for Child Custody in a Virginia Divorce? (Part A)

Going through a divorce is often a very painful experience. To add to your pain and uncertainty, you may also be facing a Virginia child custody hearing. There is a lot at stake concerning the future of your child(ren), so you may be wondering what will hurt your chances for a child custody case.

Courtroom Behavior in a Virginia Child Custody Hearing

Although you may be experiencing negative feelings toward your ex-husband, it is important to keep them to yourself. Becoming embittered and angry toward your husband's representation does you and your case no good.

It is important that you do not argue with the opposing Virginia divorce attorney or turn this into a personal battle. Nothing will hurt your chances quicker than exhibiting angry, out-of-control behavior in the courtroom. While in court, always, always, be on your very best behavior.

Courtroom Etiquette in a Virginia Child Custody Hearing

Courtroom etiquette must be followed if you want to avoid hurting your chances for a favorable Virginia child custody decision. Listed below are some important courtroom etiquette tips to keep in mind:

• Turn off your cell phone
• Whenever the judge enters the room or stands up, you should also stand
• Do not speak unless you have been asked a question
• When referring to the judge do so as "Your Honor"
• If you do speak to the judge, stand up

One of the most important things that you can do in a courtroom to better your chances of winning child custody in Virginia is to keep a poker face throughout the proceedings. No matter what is said or done, it is extremely important that you never make faces. This includes rolling your eyes or contorting your face.

Although you may think this will convince the judge that the other side is not being truthful, it actually makes you appear less credible. Your gestures and demeanor are watched closely and will impact a judge's opinion of you, and consequently, your chances of winning child custody in Virginia.

If you are facing an uncertain Virginia child custody decision, it would be in your best interest to consult with an experienced divorce attorney who understands women's issues in Virginia. It is important that the Virginia divorce attorney you choose has handled cases similar to yours and that they understand how to win favorable child custody decisions in Virginia.

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